Mothering for New Parents

Doulas Offer Support, Nurturing and Reassurance for Mums and Dads

Jul 3, 2008

Doula is a Greek word meaning, 'servant or caregiver' and in modern society, these women offer independent, non-clinical support before, during and after childbirth.

The role of a Doula (pronounced ‘doola’) had developed greatly in modern times as the process of birth has moved from home centered to a medical managed model in hospital. Women (and men) of today are more likely to lack the hands-on support of a mother, sister and grandmother for a number of reasons - often simply a case of geography as families are dispersed more widely. The Doula can replicate the guidance and practical help, previously provided by immediate family members.

Role of the Doula

A Doula is a woman who has had the experience of giving birth and can range in age from 20 to 60 or 70. They are in the main, employed privately by parents for a time either at birth or in the first weeks following birth and sometimes for both.

Doulas are not clinical practitioners and do not replace the role of qualified midwives. Their purpose is to support, nurture and reassure both the mother and the father. The Doula can provide a level of continuity and advocacy for the parents as they experience the joy of birth and prospect of parenthood. First time mothers as well as mothers with other children employ doulas and their role depends on the individual circumstances.

Birth Doulas

Doulas can offer a range of support at childbirth and will differ according to the individual needs of the parents who employ them. They offer flexible support and will contribute to the birthing plan both before and during birth. They are committed to maintaining the parents' right to a unique experience and will offer helpful suggestions on ways to maximise comfort such as breathing, relaxation, movement and positioning. The Doula can also offer the father help to participate actively in what can sometimes feel like a mother-only experience.

Klaus, Kennel and Klaus in their research findings “Mothering the Mother” determined that having a Doula present at birth can;

Parents may wish to employ a Doula for a period of time following the birth to help with establishing a routine or providing time and space for older siblings. Mothers of today are often expected to return quickly to their pre-birth life and a Doula can help to support the parents to gain the most out of this important settling in time. The Doula can provide the support that may have naturally been provided by a family member, helping with the baby, cooking, cleaning and generally around the house. Post Natal Doulas may be the same woman employed during the birth or a Doula who only provides support for families during this particular period.

Studies have shown that if a child is cared for properly in the first three weeks of life it will benefit in many ways and most particularly emotionally, physically and intellectually. Support from Doulas can improve parenting, provide mothers and fathers with time and energy to develop a stable environment for children and the family as a whole.

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