Pregnancy & Childbirth

» morningcloak - grief after miscarriage

I am currently having my 10th miscarriage.It is never easy knowing you are losing a child.The best thing you can do is stay strong.Cry whenever you feel sad.Dont keep it inside,let it out.Treat yourself,do something you enjoy even if its something simple.The pain you feel now will always linger even long after your loss.But you will survive.You will have happiness again and you need to remember that.Loosing a child is very painful no matter how far along you were in your pregnancy.That child was a promise of something wonderful and joyful.And you should know ,that cild would want you to be strong.Take comfort in your friends and family at this time.You need and deserve to feel loved and cared for .Anyone who is willing to be there for you,let them.Take as much time as you need.But please,if your grief becomes to much for you see a medical professional right away.Do not feel ashamed.If you need help from a pro get it.You deserve to be happy.You have done nothing wrong,so dont blame yourself,love yourelf and take care of yourself.

-- posted by morningcloak

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